



It is that time of the year. Yes fall/autumn has come to south Georgia. Not as glorious as the fall in Ohio or other places, but still beautiful. Everything has turned to gold...or on my artist palette some of my favorites; brunt umber, yellow ocher, brunt sienna, touch of alizarin crimson and then everything turns to gold. The sun sets early but I love what it does to that touch of gold.
The farmers here in south Georgia have just harvested cotton, not the abundant corn rows of Ohio, but both beautiful each in its own way. Harvesting of course brings one around to thoughts of the first Thanksgiving with pilgrims and Indians. The ideal of being thankful for what the past year has produced. Once one starts wandering down that road with memories of past Thanksgivings; people and places, families and friends, big and small gatherings... resulting in more thankfulness.
Some of us are lucky enough to have traditional Thanksgivings but most of the people I know do not fit into the stereotypes. How creative we all are! I have come to the conclusion that it is all about the turkey, and I don't mean whether it is good or bad, but just that there is one!
I fondly remember when I was in 4th grade and my two spinster aunts would arrive from Nashville, TN on Wednesday night on the Hummingbird Express at Union Terminal in Cincinnati, OH. (Yes grannie kids the terminal had trains before it became that wonderful museum you have now.) Sorry no moonshine like in the
Waltons for us, but there were rum balls and wine wrapped fruit cakes. And then the cooking would begin. My mother would vacate her kitchen and let the Nashville side of the family take over. We watched the parade on TV and
Miracle on 34th Street while sneaking olives and pimento stuffed celery from the table in great anticipation of the turkey feast being prepared.
While I was talking to Maddie my grannie-daughter on the phone last night we got around to discussing turkey. She was excited because her 2nd grade class was having a Thanksgiving Feast on Tuesday. Of course they had been studying about the history but the highlight for Maddie is the dressing. "I just love dressing! " Uncannily, as is often the case with Maddie, she reminded me of my mother, Grandma Helen. I can remember her saying the same thing, even finishing the comment with..."Just plain celery, onion...it's even better than the turkey!" Maddie will be gathering with her mother Aileen's family in Cleveland. I am sure it will be wonderful...a very large family that seems to have it very well put together and enjoy gathering.
Thoughts of Aileen bring me to the first Thanksgiving we shared. She and Jamie were still in the dating stages, though Jamie had confided in me that this was "the one." I had assembled quite a crew in my little dining room extending the table with 2 card tables! My brother and his wife, Margaret, then husband Tom and his mother, aunt and brother, Scott in from college, my mother, and Jamie and Aileen. It was marvelous and so much fun. I enjoyed watching everyone interact...we were all impressed with Aileen who had baked a pumpkin pie for the occasion. I have been impressed with her ever since.
This Thanksgiving I will be helping Scott at his Double O Ranch in Live Oak, FL "do" Thanksgiving. Which means a 17 pound turkey with "plain" stuffing and all the trimmings. I hope his Ashley and my Jon are ready for this! Scott and I have done this several times. I enjoy sharing his day with us reminiscing about the past and dreaming about the future. The Double O is fun with all of his animals and of course we bring our 3 dogs too...we still gather a good crew with we 4 people 9 dogs, 3 cats, 4 horses, 1 turtle. It will be a grand time.
I have spent Thanksgiving so poor that if it hadn't been a food bank turkey there would have been none, and I have worked at food drives, and had turkey at Bob Evans, and at our Moose Lodge. I can't remember one that was bad, or one that we didn't have a prayer and blessings and the participants didn't give to each other. Thanks and giving is what it is all about.
Happy Thanksgiving color your world with gold.